If you are old enough, you may remember real women. Here are two of the best, from Thelma & Louise. Remember, if you heart is racing uncontrollably, take 1/2 of an 81mg Aspirin and call 911.
One of the most worthwhile persons I have ever found, and a very, very brave man. His book ‘Non Violent Communication’ is highly recommended. Deceptively simple at first, it plumbs the depths of everything.